Wives should speak and act toward their husbands as to their bosses
Lesson no. 1 to wives: Act and speak to your husband as to your boss. This is a very important lesson. I hear from women all around the world that they have problem to submit to their husbands. They complain, reject and mock at their husband instead of giving reverence by submitting to them. So stop talking back, stop giving “wise” advices that were not asked, shut up your mouth and do what you should do.
I ask them why can’t they submit and the answer is either that they want but they can’t or that they don’t trust in the decision of the husband, they see their husband as not spiritual. Now, this is a big lie. From the above mentioned statement those who simply “can’t” and have problem to submit you can see how big stronghold is the disobedience of women toward their husbands. It’s longer than 6000 years old fortress, spiritual powers and demons that drive these thoughts and acts.
We can go back in time till Adam and Eve when eve was the one who initiated the first sin and as such initiated the first disobedience. Of course, that was the snake who initiated first but here we have no excuse for anyone. I’m not telling you this to satisfy your Sunday church needs. You can go for that somewhere else and not read this blog.
Jezebel was one of the first figure the holy writings mention who simply took the initiative and did what she liked she wanted to do without asking her husband’s allowance. Throughout the years and centuries Jezebel became the symbol of woman disobedience and as such it is reflected to today’s word “feminism”.
Feminism is nothing else then the spirit of Jezebel called by a modern word. So when we tackle the subject of disobedience or to say the “inability” to submit to the husband we talk about feminism that is the spirit of Jezebel. Adam was created first and Eve was only created for him. So you can see that Eve is a secondary figure and was meant to be a secondary figure from the beginning.
Throughout the holy writings we can read many stories about godly men and their stories but we hardly find stories about women. Why? Because they are not important. They were secondary figures, the help of their husbands, women who stood in the background being the help meet of their head, the man.
So it means that if a woman says to me that she simply has problem to submit that means she is listening to the spirit of Jezebel, which in fact is a demonic lord. The solution for this women can only be to get rid of this spirit once for all. She must she that she, her thoughts are driven and manipulated by this 6000 years old satanic fortress. She must give up her former ways of acting and speaking and learn from godly women how they conducted themselves toward their husband. Such stories can be found in the holy writings, one just need to open and read it.
Now to the one who questions the ability of her husband to lead and make decisions I say the following. Who are you, women to question what is a right decision or leading? Who are you, you who were created for the man to question him at all and doubt about him. You should shut your mouth up and listen instead. There is no need to contribute to the decision of a man or to his leading unless he asks for it. But you always contribute and think that you are right, the more you think that your ideas are always better in a way and more spiritual. You fool!
This woman must learn that she has no right at all to question anything what her husband does, think, or lead. There are only few exceptions where a woman is allowed to take a godly step disobeying the husband in a way. But that’s 1%. The rest is astray act and foolish talk. This woman must learn to deny herself and give her everything to her head that is her husband. She must forget about these things: “I think this is not like this”, “I think we could do this instead”, “I think this is foolish”, “I think it’s not godly and not spiritual”, “I think there is a better way, a better option, a better decision”. These are common thoughts that can enter the mind of a woman, and in part the man can be responsible for it if he does not take the initiative to lead. Well, I say to you, even though he does not lead as you wished first you must give him the platform to lead and that is your submission. Without the platform of submission no man can be good leader, head of the family, decision maker or whatever else he must do.
I heard a story about a woman who has problems to submit to her husband and got from her dear husband the following “shut your mouth up”. Now, this happened to me too in my marriage so I know what this man have thought and went through. Her dear wife simply ignored his authority and talked around in vain. It’s a common thing for women to talk around in vain, to interrupt the speaking of the man, and to give their “better advices”, or question a decision. Well, I was online talking on a messenger with my wife when she told me this story. This is the excerpt of what I told her:
(14:34:02) My wife: could I copy for you a passage S. wrote?
(14:34:09) My wife: finally she turned to my topic…
(14:34:34) My wife: ah – I have that problem as well – its hard to be told to do something – R. told me the other day that if he told me something to do that I was to shut my mouth and do it – that really hurt me, even though I knew that it was the truth – I fought it
I think its hard to get out of that pattern of thinking
it takes so much mental energy
(14:35:52) My wife: – I want to add it is NO excuse
(14:35:55) My wife: just to know…
(14:36:27) My wife: And yes, it is a sure thing that everything has an ORDER that CANNOT fail
(14:36:43) Me: yeah
(14:37:03) Me: to the message of S. I don’t understand women really
(14:37:25) Me: even at work you have to shut your mouth up and obey the boss
(14:37:48) Me: so why is it harder in marriage towards the husband
(14:38:12) Me: it has to do with the devil who put this stupid thing in the mind of the woman
(14:38:37) Me: they can obey at work but not at home because if they did obey at work the devil would have a problem
(14:38:47) Me: because the assembly would grow
(14:38:53) Me: but like this he is satisfied
(14:39:06) Me: the woman goes to work and obeys gladly the boss and shuts the mouth up
(14:39:24) Me: even men shuts up their mouth and obey to their bosses
(14:40:27) Me: but in marriage it the mind of the woman is cursed that “here it’s different, let it hurt for you if your husband says to you to shut up, let you not obey”
(14:40:35) Me: and he is well successful
(14:40:44) Me: he does not only destroys the family
(14:40:53) Me: but the love
(14:40:56) Me: on both sides
(14:40:59) Me: the trust
(14:41:02) Me: and everything
(14:41:12) Me: I don’t know what to say
(14:42:05) My wife: I do not know as well you said all
(14:42:11) My wife: so thanks
So you see, thing is that even that sister with whom my wife is in touch with admitted that “even though I knew that it was the truth – I fought it”. Then she adds “it takes so much mental energy”. I agree. If you stick to your mental ability, that is your thinking, the less capable brain of a woman then there is a problem. She must first learn to give up herself for her husband as she gave up herself to god and as she gives up herself to her boss daily.
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I notice you haven’t used any scripture to support what you’re saying. What a big surprise. No, what we have here is yet another man using his religion as a tool to beat women down with. How Christlike.
Shame on you.
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Barnabas Nagy Reply:
July 3rd, 2009 at 8:45:48
Shame on you christian! I have no need to provide any scripture to justify my words. Anyone who is from the truth understands what I’m saying and that it is scriptural. You just come here to beat me down because of your envy and having no knowledge.
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Anon Reply:
July 3rd, 2009 at 15:35:25
Yes, you do. You absolutely do. You are hiding behind your words here. WEhat you are saying is absolutely NOT scruptural. Feel free to actually provide scripture and prove me wrong, though.
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Barnabas Nagy Reply:
July 4th, 2009 at 12:32:31
“wives submit to your husbands in everything” I hide nothing. You came here with no reason but to push me down.
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Anon Reply:
July 4th, 2009 at 16:11:54
Again you see fit to try and tell me what myt motivation is. You’re once again wrong.
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Anon Reply:
July 3rd, 2009 at 15:37:56
Oh, and no, I am not here to ‘beat you down.’ What exactly is it I am supposed to be envious of, anyway? I see nothing to be envious of. And…how exactly do you feel justified on judging how much knowledge I do or don’t have? You have no idea who I am, so how can you? I have studied the word, my brother, and I can give you a list of about, ooh, 20 things just off the top of my head that are wrong with what you said here. Why is it that you whine about nobody leaving comments on this judgement riddled blog, and yet whenever anyone does, and you don’t like it, all they get is judgement and belittlement?
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Barnabas Nagy Reply:
July 4th, 2009 at 12:35:01
I judge what needs to be judged. Children of god can judge. And you are judged because you have not 1 word that would be not out of envy, hatred and foolishness. I see no sign for your self righteousness calming you to be wise. You are very unwise and fool. It’s obvious. Please stay away from this blog if you don’t like it and don’t mess it up.
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Anon Reply:
July 4th, 2009 at 16:13:47
Once agian, I ask you, wehat exactly is here that you think I envy? You have not answered one of my questions. I am not going anywhere. And I don’t care what you think of me, since you’re not the one who will judge me. Might want to remember that.
And how exactly would I mess it up? Seems like you’re mangaing that all by yourself.
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Rosie Reply:
August 10th, 2009 at 6:47:22
your words disgust me in every way, shape, and form.
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Oh yes, and if your wife behaves the same to you as she does towards her boss, assuming you ‘allow’ her to work or leave the house, your marriage has problems.
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Barnabas Nagy Reply:
July 3rd, 2009 at 8:47:36
Why? Anyway I need no answer from you because you are here just to distort whatever you can. My wife works and I teach her to act towards me as towards her boss and she understand is and finds it scriptural. Period.
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Anon Reply:
July 3rd, 2009 at 15:39:25
Again you see fit to judge my motivation, when, again, you don’t know me. You are not God, you have no idea about why I am here. So, what you are saying is that your wife must obey you without question? Show me where that is in the bible, since you think I have no knowledge.
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Barnabas Nagy Reply:
July 4th, 2009 at 12:27:16
You have indeed no knowledge if you had you knew that it is in bible written “wives submit to your husbands in EVERYTHING”. Period. And I’m not god, but god judges you by your own words.
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Anon Reply:
July 4th, 2009 at 16:17:20
Yes. Submit. But you forgot the next part, Husbands, love your wives. Not ‘husbands, your wives are less than you, worth less than you, KNOW less than you, and must be controlled by a man.’
If you want your wife to treat her boss the same way as you, to submit in the same way…don’t be surprised when they end up sleeping together. Seriously. I am very surprissed you don’t see ANYTHING wrong with that/
By the way, does your wife know you think she’s less than you?
Also, you say women have less capable brains. Please tell me where that is in the word of God? Or will you once again refuse to cite the word?
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Barnabas Nagy Reply:
July 4th, 2009 at 18:38:56
I don’t need to explain this to you.
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Anon Reply:
July 4th, 2009 at 16:19:21
And…it doens’t say what you said, by the way. Might want to go READ the bible you are so disdainful of.
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I agree with you Barnabas, That is the authority found in the scripture, Eph 5:22-24.
22Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
However the scripture goes on to say:
25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing[b] her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church— 30for we are members of his body. 31″For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.”[c] 32This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.
My problem with the article, is that if we are really treating our wives with the love and respect that the Bible teaches we are supposed to, then do we “Drop the Hammer on her, or in this case, tell her to “shut her mouth” or is there a more christ-like, loving, nurturing way of doing things?
Looking at 1 Corinthians 13:
4Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
In taking your rightful authority in the home, don’t forget what the attributes of love are and the fruits of the spirit should be present as well!
Peace and Blessings Guys!
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The bible is fuhcked up. If God is a pure, all powerful being, why wouldnt she/he have created everyone equal? The bible was made up by the power-hungry men of this screwed up society. What proof does anyone have that this so called “bible” was written by the son of God. Maybe a man who “claimed” to be such a thing. I COULD WRITE A BOOK RIGHT NOW AND CLAIM I WAS A PROPHET. than, years from now the roles of women and men (according to you) would be switched. so as for your supreme knowledge of the world… its been proved invalid.
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Lirybka Reply:
October 11th, 2009 at 15:23:21
It hasn’t been proved invalid, dear Rosie! Why else would have God created a man a woman for the bond of marriage if it hasn’t had any higher goal? You can claim that the Bible is screwed and I mean it is in a way but therefore not everything written in there is rubbish! The meaning of a godly marriage is the image for the assembly.
You will deny and reject this if you don’t want to follow the truth. But I tell you the roles of women toward men will be never exchanged. We can always try to keep another position than the one meant for us but like that we will just be frustrated, empty, ruined…
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you bastards think you are so great , think that woman have to submit to you. Who do you think you are? Without women there will be no children you idiots are only sperm donaters nothin much more! Now days many women get a higher post at jobs then man if you think women should submit to you , you can jolly well go to hell.
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Lirybka Reply:
October 11th, 2009 at 15:18:29
Excuse me, what’s the matter? Are you frustrated by men? I am afraid it’s because of your own corrupt attitude. As long as we don’t submit to men we will suffer a lot. It’s the feminist thought that the woman has to shine…Do YOU know that you are nothing more than a poor female being trying to go against the wall? I wished you would experience the real joy coming out of submitting!!!
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